Fucking Kimmy Schmidt

Hi. It’s Drew. Remember me?

It feels like forever since I have written a post and it’s just been one of those weeks where I could not think of anything to write about. It hasn’t been a bad week at all, just busy and I have had an aversion to writing ANYTHING, texts included, which is especially sad because I have three huge reports all due next Friday that I could have been working on this week. But, I didn’t and I will get them in. Somehow. The good news is I have channeled that into working out, watching baseball and watching my newest discovery of Netflix, The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt. It’s a silly little show by Tina Fey that has just made me laugh all week.

My mood is way better thanks to the pill that got my hormone level out of manapause rather quickly and I am no longer extremely sensitive and baby kitten like weak. The side effect of that is a raging horniness that has not been felt in awhile and I am rather enjoying that, even though Axel is far away and Thumper is out in the woods without internet access all week. On that note, it was funny, last week when all the mood drama hit me and he and I were still in the “is he repulsive?” stages of his bisexuality (yes, I said we, commenters, because Axel tells me that when the “r word” is mentioned that people go through things together, but, his layers of sexuality do have a direct impact on me so it’s appropriate) I rather worried about if I did miss him would that be weird or some other kind of shit like that, but, life is life and I have missed him this week and look forward to his return to my day to day world. Simple as that. We keep each other company, or, mostly, he keeps me company and updated on world news and baseball while I am out and about so that’s nice. Also, this week my work colleague who I text with about 37 times a day has been on vacation and Axel is crazy busy, so I really have zero excuses for not getting my work done aside from fucking Kimmy Schmidt.

Axel and I have not yet had the chastity and discipline talk we have been planning to have, but that has been due to some schedules that have been weirder than normal and a particular client he has been working with that has troubled us both all week. I think I will actually post about that situation separately because it’s something that deserves it’s own spotlight rather than being buried in the middle of a long post about really nothing.

That said, one thing I want to address is last week in the post where I discussed that I was having trouble finding my sub space, I mentioned that Axel and I were on the edge of taking a bigger step toward a different kind or level of chastity than we had in the past and I wondered if I was nervous about that. I was not really meaning that the new device I will be ordering in a few weeks was going to change everything, but a few people thought that in the comments and, while I addressed it there, I want to reiterate that a bit here too.

Thumper mentioned,

The Steelheart was going to do the trick, but didn’t. A Steelwerks device will do the trick, but will it? I don’t know. He’s been through a lot of devices and none of them have worked for whatever reason”. 

This was followed by him also saying,

“Besides any unresolved behavioral/relationship/dynamic issues (none of which am I privy to, BTW) or perhaps wanting the *idea* of chastity more than the reality for whatever reason (he’s really into the shiny baubles with ceramic knobs), Drew’s lifestyle is really poorly suited to the long-term enforced dynamic. Possible, but such a bigger hassle. And, IMO, until Axel really puts his foot down about it, I don’t know that it’ll ever reach critical mass.”

When he wrote that, he texted me that I was likely not going to like his comment and that it was approaching an area that he and I had not talked about. This is true on the talked about area because it’s is hard for us, him specifically, to see me as the switch I am, so I sometimes leave some of the details out of details because, me being a sub is the last place I want his mind to go during the times when I need him focused. As for me not liking it, nah, I thought it was pretty spot on, but also shows that I have not done a good job of educating those around me, even my boyfriend, about what it is that Axel and I want to accomplish by this change in the dynamic.

First and foremost, unless I ever change jobs or find myself grounded for an extended period of time, Axel and I will never have anything close to what Thumper and Belle have, nor do I think we want it that way. We see the chastity as a prelude to very good sex and, in Axel’s mind, because he likes my penis a great deal, very good sex involves me being unlocked, so I will not be denied in the way that many crave. Would I like that? maybe, but it’s simply not an option for us, so we don’t even think about it. It’s more of a game at times and right now, that is working aside from the fact I do not have a device that I find very comfortable for the long term due to my PA, the size tube I need, and other issues. We LOVE the idea of him owning my dick and that was accomplished with the his “request” (i.e. demand) I get the PA first and now with that locking barbell that I no longer even carry an emergency key to, so we accomplished that and he is beginning to refer to it as “his”, etc. I love that. The lockup, however, at least for the time being, is going to be something we do when I am home at all times and when I am traveling at specific times. This will allow my sex to be controlled which, in return, will drive my sex drive through the roof – something that is often hard to have happen when I am tired all the time from never being in the same place each week.

The device itself, well, yes, it’s going to be an investment but we are looking at it like the wedding ring we never spent money on. In fact, I looked last night and mine cost $22 and his was $28 when we bought them on Amazon in 2013 when the first SCOTUS ruling occurred, so it’s not like we went all out. This device, which I can’t wait to show you the design ideas we have been batting back and forth to Canada, is going to be unique for me, fit to me, and, though chosen by me for comfort and design, approved by Axel which will make me proud to wear it. I know that we could do what we are doing with a Holy Trainer or, gasp, God forbid a CB6000, but, I consider us lucky enough to not have to take that route so I look forward to the adventure to get it and the adventures long after it is made.

Now, I have one minute until I have to go present a presentation to 28 strangers, so I need to quickly get my mindset off of this and in a more “neutral” place.

Think dead puppies, Drew. Dead puppies. Dead puppies. Old women having sex. Dead puppies.

Okay, that worked…

8 thoughts on “Fucking Kimmy Schmidt

  1. Well, there you are, I was really starting to miss you guys and wondering if everything is alright. I forgot about Thumper being in the woods this week, so no wonder it’s been doubly quiet. Can’t wait to see your new device and of course it’s going to be kick-ass awesome, it’s being made in Canada.

    Dead puppies, Drew how could you, I could stand the thought of old ladies making love, but dead puppies, just can’t take that thought. Glad your back and good luck with your reports

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  2. I can’t wait to see the design for your new chastity device. It sounds as if you and Axel have put a great deal of thought in to the design.

    With all my airport travel, if you have hit on something that will make it that much easier that would be awesome.

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    1. We are still honing a few things down so I am waiting until one is actually measured and ordered. That said, the ability to fly in it, I believe, is not going to happen – maybe – as that would require 100% titanium and that comes with a cost that is not yet within my realm of comfort or need.

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      1. I’ve wondered too if, even though it was the right metal (titanium), wouldn’t it still show up on the body scans? And if so, would it trip them? I ask because I’ve been stopped for a RECEIPT in my pocket, let alone a sizeable amount of metal strapped to me.

        Dunno, just thinking “out loud” about how that would work out.

        Can relate to the writing lag – glad to hear from you again – and am sure you ROCKED the dead puppies presentation. Er, I mean, presentation after thinking about dead puppies.

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      2. My understanding is that the metal detectors don’t just find ferrous metals. They detect any metal including titanium joint replacements. Titanium is a nice choice because it is pretty and considerably lighter weight than steel.

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      3. In my instance, I fly so much I have TSA Pre-Check so I go through metal detectors and keep my shoes on. As for titanium, I have 6 titanium screws in my left knee that are never picked up by the metal detectors. However, there is a big difference between 6 screws and a chastity device!!

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      4. I’m a Trusted Traveler too. I go through the PRE lines too. I suspect the titanium screws are inside the limits (not to mention the location being atypical for a weapon) of the detector. My belt buckle has a lot more metal. In the PRE line as you know, we keep jackets, belts and shoes on so the sensitivity is set low.

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  3. Enforced chastity doesn’t have to be about long periods of abstinence. Mrs. Lion and I work with fairly short waits. Mine range from three to about twenty days. It works for us. She likes my penis a lot and doesn’t want to be without my semen for too long. I wholeheartedly support her enjoyment of my sexual release.

    There is no rule book that grades you as a good caged male based on your wait times. This is all about consensual power exchange. The only person you have to satisfy is Axel. Disregard the “advice” you get about minimum wait times, etc. You can also have a full enforced chastity relationship without wearing a device. You know that. Have fun and give Axel a chance to find his footing.

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