I’ve been quiet over the last few days, which is mostly due to the fact that work and the impending holidays have just slammed me in an end of year travel and report writing frenzy. It’s funny, Thumper and I were talking the other day about postings and trying to keep a schedule and, though I don’t remember what his advice was, I do remember feeling better about it and thinking that time will come when it comes and if it’s days or even weeks between postings, it is what it is, simple as that.
That said, while I have been quiet, my penis has not been. With the arrival of the final piece of the Axel device, the new locking curved barbell, I have finally been able to lock the device on the way it was designed to be locked and that has been quite the experience that is worthy of its own review soon, though multiple pictures, taken by me, of course, have made the Twitter rounds in an effort to show it off a bit and, more importantly, show off the work of Steelwerks Extreme, as, once again, I can’t say enough good things about them. They returned the favor to me with the following tweet that my penis thinks is one of the best compliments ever and he asked me to make sure I reposted that. He’s a vain one, he is.
So, what surprised me has been a slight pushback from several of the diehard chastity guys I have followed about why me, a relative novice in the locking world would want a “perfect device” and why I “would dare have something so customized” when I only wear it a few days a week, if that and that they were “tired of seeing pictures that flaunt the fact I can take it on and off”. It was a weird mix of envy and made me feel a bit like I had missed a meeting and now my dues to the Chastity Club were late. In reality, I had to laugh at these comments. Multiple times. Frankly, I just put that here to let those guys who read this to just have that subtle “fuck off” directly from me so as to not allow them to think I didn’t notice. For me, it’s a piece of art designed by my friend for me and if I am not wearing it, just looking at it makes me happy, which is something all art should do. So, fuck off you three.
As for the wearing of all or just parts of it, it’s happening more and more but in my life there is no such thing as a regular schedule any more and I have stopped beating myself up about not having some plan in place. In addition, adding in the complications with Axel’s health and the impending months of being disabled, we just have more to think about now than ever, so when it brings us pleasure, it does. When it doesn’t, it doesn’t. Simple as that.