The great 2021 no-gasm

Happy New Year. I am now proud to say that I did not ejaculate once in 2021. Something I never thought I would never say. What’s more, something I would never have thought anyone would say.

So, I suppose a little reflection about this year is warranted.

In 2020, I met an amazing, sexy, man for lunch. We had an instant connection and somewhere, deep down, I suspected this man would own me one day. He made me melt. I mean, have you seen his eyes? A week or so later I met his husband who is equally as amazing. Then, within a few weeks I had my first chastity cage, and I was head over heels for these two men. A month later, I had my PA installed, a bonafide start to the badass metal dick club. By the time I had healed and gauged up and healed again, I had a shiny new titanium cage. A cage that I had not seen. A cage that I had no input in designing. Little did I know, my Master and the mastermind at Steelwerks had designed a perfect cage for me. The first time I actually saw it, it was already locked on my dick. It was fucking beautiful. 

At some point the rules were decided. I could ask to come twice a year and my request would likely be granted, although for some reason this year I did not ask. I’d be allowed to come at Christmas, just over a year from being locked. Today is one week after Christmas and I still have not cum and my dick is still locked. My Master and Daddy traveled for the holidays, so we knew in advance that it wouldn’t actually be Christmas, but after they returned a series of unfortunate events involving my family and the “is it covid or is it a cold?” factor factored in and it still hasn’t happened. It will happen. Just not today.

That said, to be honest, there is a part of me that isn’t really one hundred percent convinced I want to do the deed although every other part of me says that I want to 120 percent. I’m a little nervous about it as well. I mean, fuck, there’s a lot of pressure to perform, you know? 

For me, in addition to the denial and generally kinkiness, this titanium cage has represented the one true time in my adult life that I have ever had true unconditional love and support. It represents that love and support despite the fact that I’m a kinky pervert, despite the fact that I don’t always feel deserving of it, despite the fact that I’m not always the easiest person to love. But there it is, my dick locked in a titanium cage, my owned dick, a reminder that despite my imperfections, I’m loved without condition. 

I’ve actually woken up in the middle of the night with the most stupid thought of should I just say no and go another year? I mean, as every day that goes by my desire to be indefinitely chaste gets a bit stronger because of the shiny reminder of unconditional love securely locked where it belongs. I guess what I’m saying is that I enjoy the tangible reminder that I’m owned and with that comes unconditional love. I’m excited about “Christmas Orgasm,” but I’m just as happy whether or not Christmas 2021 actually will come this year or whether I will decide, with the guidance of my Master and Daddy, to just call it a year and go for two?

Stay tuned.


  1. “represented the one true time in my adult life that I have ever had true unconditional love and support. It represents that love and support”


    Also, congratulations on a whole year locked. Good luck with your future non-Orgasmic adventures.

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  2. You have created something beautiful with a year of being chaste. Most owned men would only dream of achieving that mark. Of course I am biased, but you stand at the precipice of achieving something even greater and more beautiful. Reflect on your achievement, and decide if 8 minutes of pleasure would offset the 525,592 minutes during the next year of knowing what you potentially have created and given toyour Master.

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  3. Jack this is a beautiful blog of how you feel. I am also in permanent chastity but only on day 96. I have had 3 ruined and 1 uncaged orgasm. I don’t think I could give it up. But I totally respect and admire subs who have chosen not to have any. In those cases I hope your hole provides you with pleasure. If I could learn to orgasm from my hole I would give the other up as well. I will say that I now enjoy the pain or a ruined caged orgasm more than an uncaged orgasm. Good luck to you in your decision and I look forward to what you decide. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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  4. congrats. Commendable. yr whole tribe might like a new group I’ve joined that u can find on Discord, twitter, or blogspot. It’s called Elysium. At any rate, the 3 of you are living Goals.


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