Happy holidays from the lost perverts. And by that I mean me and jack.
I never intended for the blog to be an annual update, but priorities shifted, the way the feeds work is different, and I am not sure there is a great story to be told as we are past the “training period” and more in the maintenance phase of jack’s enslavement. Also, we live in one those Southern states that requires verification for most adult sites, and Bluesky, citing free speech, closed access without a VPN which made it a hassle when one wanted to post a quick pic, though that was restored about a week ago so now we have no excuse. That said, there are still a lot of unseen pics!
As for jack, he is in his sixth holiday season as the slave under the tree and none of us could be more happy about that than we are about that fact. We still see each other at least twice a week, but those times of having lots of time to JUST be Master and slave have significantly decreased due to life. I still travel six or eight times a month and his kid has grown up, which ironically, is not the freedom I had thought it would be. Not having kids myself I think I just thought that as they grew they became more independent, but it turns out that they now have places to go, teams to participate on (where apparently a parent needs to watch), and, of all things, they ask questions when Dad disappears in the afternoon and comes home with rope marks and bruises. It’s the damndest thing really, but we adjust and know college is coming, and I am still advocating for a scholarship to the University of Far Far Away. But that’s just my dick talking.
This brings up a point though because it’s something I think about often especially because we made a pact at the beginning that we would always only be each other’s number two because my husband and his kid was always and would always be number one. While there have been days when one of us might have slipped into the number one role for a few hours, not once has either of us regretted that decision. As a Master, I will fully admit that it is tough at times to not have him at my constant availability or have him be able to follow my every order which one would expect in this role, especially if you are on the internet. But it was a choice we made and I have to get myself in check and not have hard feelings or punish him more because of those things (he gets enough punishment without needing the extra) but it’s a selfish feeling and not something I ever thought would be there. Of course, I realize that he may have the same when he really wants to serve and I am on another continent, but I get to chalk that up to denial is the life of a slave and just tell him to carry a bigger plug to work in himself the next day. I do like that power though I never, ever try to diminish his emotions.
As for the chastity, we are not officially counting, but if I do the math based solely on an anniversary date, I think today would be his 1,915th day locked into a beautifully crafted Steelwerks cage, but days locked quit mattering years ago and, though there have been times the dick I own has been out of the cage he wears because of life, chaste is chaste and I never once worry that he would touch himself without me approving, but he knows that will never happen. Now, every time we talk about this someone will ask about health and his is fine, he is plugged constantly and that pushes seminal fluid out, he is allowed nocturnal orgasms without punishment, and, the bigger news, is he can now orgasm when being fucked at times and when that happens I am generally so proud of myself and my technique that I would never say no to that. I mean, I am in my 50’s, it’s not as easy as it used to be!
Speaking of that, keen readers will remember that with Christmas looming, jack will once again be given the decision of whether he wants a full orgasm for Christmas or if he wants to give that back to me as my present. This is the sixth time he has been given that choice and he gave it back to me the first five and has already indicated that will be his choice next week when the actual holiday choice happens. So, no spoiler alert or drama here as I think we can guarantee he will not feel a hand on that dick this year yet again.
So, that’s the update and I hope we will be able to do more soon as it is still very important to me to show this side of submission and dominance done through mutual respect and full consent. I know it’s not as hot as some of the stories, but it works for us and it’s just how we roll. There is never any doubt that I own jack, ever, but I still want to put it out there at times so others can see this side and, most importantly, realize that there is no one way to have this type relationship and that whether you are sub or Dom, you owe it to yourself to find exactly what will work for you.
Happy Holidays.
Thanks for the update!