Hello from my inner sadist

Fuck, I want to hurt someone today (in that good, good way, of course). I wouldn’t actually say I am particularly horny, just somewhat “sadisticy”. I…
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Kiwi, Train, and General Updates

So, happy new week everyone. I am aboard what I think is the only on time Delta flight today, a fact that would normally be…
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Questions, answers, and another car comparison – Life in a Steelwerks cage.

Over the last year I have been asked multiple times about how the Steelwerk’s device, with their one of a kind S-screw, goes on and…
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Look Better Naked – Quick Check

In the quest to look better naked, Thumper and I are quietly tracking and encouraging each other via our Apple Watches and the nifty like…
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Double Dick Down

Finally, a post about sex and chastity, right? Mostly. So, it’s early in the morning on Friday (2am-ish) and I cannot sleep which is more…
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Sitcom Life

Good morning from Gotham. The pic above is my current view as I sit with about 700 of my closest colleagues at an industry conference.…
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“Is Thumper Still Bisexual?”

“Is Thumper still bisexual?” That was the question posed to me yesterday from a reader of this blog who was basically asking why I haven’t…
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Thank you Mr. Savage

This week, one of Dan Savage’s  Letter of the Day winners struck a particular nerve for me. As you will see, this man is writing in…
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Relaxed Faced Emoticon Here

    Hello from Paradise – other wise know as Hawaii – one of my favorite spots on the planet. I feel like I start…
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Dear Hunter:

Dear Hunter: I have been angry, sad and confused this week over the shootings in Florida and, as you know, I wrote this semi-lovely piece…
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