To orgasm or not? Decision 2023 countdown starts now.

In the House of Drew things are finally settling down after an incredibly busy few months for all of us. For me, work and travel was insane for a few months, but that always puts me at peace in some ways as well. It sucks for things like play and quality time with the boy, but I like getting a paycheck and buying things, so we work around that. For jack, his child is now a mini-adult with lots of places to be and things to do but no driver’s license just yet to be able to do them, so the boy has spent a lot more of his time parenting than he has had to do over the last few years. It’s funny, not being a parent myself, I think I thought that kids would get easier as they got older. When jack first gave himself to me, those were the days of grandparent weekends, babysitters after school, and other situations where the kid just did what jack said, but now the freedom of being older comes with questions and personal priorities for the kid, so jack has to drive and get home earlier since he does not want to leave the kid alone too long after school on the rare day they don’t have to do anything. I know that will change soon with a license and then college, hopefully far, far away. But, all that combined, we manage just fine, but I would love a lot more unlimited time together if nothing else for his chores and time to let him just be a slave. His kennel will be a full time place for him one day we know, but it will just take time.

Also, before we move on, it’s been pointed out to me that I refer to his kid as “the kid” quite often and some think that sounds derogatory or cold indicating a displeasure with him being a dad. This is the furthest from the truth as a gay, fit, intelligent, surgical nurse and fireman is hot alone, but when you add that he is a real life Daddy into this mix, damn my pride in owning that swells just a bit more. But, for the record, I say “kid” because I do not intent to ever reveal things that I have no business revealing.

Anyway, now for the story…

We sit here a few days before Christmas and, if you have been following us for awhile now, you know that jack has between Christmas and New Year’s to decide whether he wants his 2023 orgasm or if he wants to forego that as a gift to his service for another year. I allow him one chance every year and every year thus far, he has decided he did not want it which now leaves him locked and orgasm free for a bit over 40 months. As always, and I mean this 100%, I do not care which decision he makes because this is one of the few decisions he has left him life that I do not weight in on (aside from anything to do with the kid in any way.) I will be delighted for him to experience it as equally as I would be delighted for him to choose to give it up again. The decision is all his and the reasoning behind whatever he decides I will instruct him to write as a follow up to this post. Either way, he cannot even think about another one for at least 12 months and, that alone, makes me happy and proud.

This has become one of my favorite holiday traditions as it always causes me to reflect on the previous year and his service to me and Axel. He has been a good boy this year and we have crossed many new thresholds together. So, maybe he does deserve it? or maybe we crossed those points because he didn’t? I guess we will all see soon.

Now, what do you think he will choose? For those of you locked, what would you do?